Back again after a long time and brimming with words to type :). Considering the kind of sabbatical I take from one blog to another, makes me sound like a Michael Jordan wannabe (Jordan always called his sabbaticals retirements). Well the last blog I wrote about was MOVING ON! Such a dampener as I am still there, the only difference is I don’t have any New Lady Part 2 :P. So the question is, what am I supposed to be doing considering I talked so much about embracing the new fears and joy. Well, I embraced this new fear of being single.

Kind of cliched the way I put it, but we all are afraid of ending up alone. When I say ‘WE’ I mean all you guys and girls, we are all subject at that concept of being lonely and insecure. Truth be told, I was as well very caught up with the concept of NOT BEING SINGLE, anyhow! :). There will be some of you men and women thinking, I am not afraid and I don’t think it should matter. You know your just kidding yourself, you would certainly like to be with that perfect someone and have a perfect life. But you and I know, the reason we end up being single is either we don’t appreciate or don’t get appreciated :D. Yes there are the others who don’t appreciate or don’t get appreciated, and still stick in a relationship or a marriage. But ladies and gentlemen, let me tell you that they are leading far more miserable lives just for the sake of companionship.

I could encounter my fear of singularity, because it is easy and fulfilling to lead a life which didn’t have standards to live up to. Life is a breeze, when the only thing that you can think of is the next day at the job and how you can give your best. Sometimes in a strange way, its good that you have not been appreciated as it only strengthens your resolve to up the ante. By the time you give your best and go away, your void will be felt in every way.

Having said that, to all the single ducks and ducklings, our single life is a testament to the fact that we have learned things the hard way. The fact is, learning the HARD WAY always pays!

Till Later Folks, I’m Out!